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Self-love – Loving yourself to love others

Self love… oh boy, this is a topic that could go so many different directions.. First let’s saying Thank you to Bernadette for even thinking of me to do this! I’ve never been a “model” in front of the Camera before, being a makeup artist I’m always in the background making sure everything is looking their absolute best. BUT – you need to wake up in the morning, look at yourself in the mirror  and go “damn – you are beautiful, you have your career on the right path, you have a loving family, and boyfriend (who loves you even on those days when you’re feeling your absolute worst)  – and your killing it.”

 

Here we go – (deep breaths!) Self Love is huge – it’s a huge lesson for any woman or man to learn about themselves, and I have to say, the past couple years have taught me a TON about it, and I truthfully believe every single person out there needs to love themselves. No. Matter. What.

 

No amount of lip injections, Botox, filler, plastic surgery, money etc, can make you love yourself. You have to dig deep and find the things that truly make you happy. Yes – you can absolutely pile on the makeup, change your appearance, buy the nice clothes, hang out with the “cool people” but are you truly happy? Probably not.  Let’s be honest – those people you see out in the world with all the things I mentioned above, acting “confident” probably aren’t.  I myself have made the mistake of hanging out with people I thought would make me feel better about myself, or buying certain clothes that were “cool” and holy shit I was wrong and was headed down the wrong path. You start to see the sides of people you don’t agree with, or don’t want anything to do with and you second guess yourself, thinking “Is this really who I want to be with? Is this what I want my life to be like?” If your answer is no – time to do some deep soul searching.

 

First thing I did to change for the better – cut those people out. Yes, it can be unbelievably difficult (I myself try to see the best in everyone) but some people can be toxic, and just weigh you down. You need to surround yourself with people who truly give a shit about you, they want to see you succeed, and they want to see you happy. THESE are the people you need in your life. One of those people who have helped me with this (besides my parents – I swear I need to listen to them more often)  is Amber Leigh of Amber Leigh Photography. I met Amber this past bridal season when she came to the rescue for a wedding my girls were working on. Afterwards, Amber and I did some collabs together, and I knew this lady was going to stick. She’s real, she knows what she wants, and she will straight up tell you how it is and if your being an idiot. She has made a HUGE impact on my life, even my man says “Babe, you gotta hang out with more people like her.” Every time I need advice on something, I’ll text her and she is ALWAYS there to respond. Another gooder I have to mention is Diana Battung of Happy Bees Events and Studios – you can instantly tell by the name of her business, she is one positive woman to be around. Not only is she absolutely STUNNING, she is so calm & collected and gives the best advice. This definitely isn’t a “go follow these woman, they are great” it’s more of a “thank god I met these woman who push me in the right direction, whether they know it or not.”

 

This is definitely just a brief start into my own self love journey, but I know over time it’s just going to keep getting better and better. You need to do what’s best for you, no matter what. This is YOUR life. Wake up in the morning and look at yourself, there is NOBODY out there like you, you’re one of a kind.Think about what you have, what you are thankful for. Cut those negative people out of your life, and focus on the positive. It has been one of the most empowering feelings in the world to wake up and know I am on the right path. F$*@ the haters – and do YOU.

 

As my fellow ginger once said… “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” – Lucille Ball

– Shayla Rose, Rose Quartz Makeup

Makeup by Shayla Rose from Rose Quartz Makeup Services https://www.facebook.com/Rosequartzmakeup/

Photography by Happy Bee Events http://www.happybeesevents.com/

 

What is self love?

Next up to share on our series about self-love is the sweet Melissa!

To me self love is looking in the mirror and being able to say I like the person  looking back at me. There are going to be days when I look in the mirror and I’m going to love the person starring back at me. Days when my eyebrows are on point and my eyeliner is perfectly even. And that matte lipstick I had to wait 2 months to come in to stock looks so bomb. Days when I look in the mirror and just have to give a hair flick because I’m just so proud of the finished product that only took me 3 hours to accomplish.

But to me self love is also being able to look at the person starring in the mirror and say, it’s ok that I just gained back that 5 pounds it took me a week and a half to lose, because I decided it was necessary at the time to eat a large pizza to myself, and wash it down with a litre jug of chocolate milk.

Self love is going into a clothing store and trying on every single garment that tickles my fancy and not caring what the size on the tag says. Then realizing that it really was a great decision to eat that pizza because it just helped me fill out the booty in those jeans that I now can’t live without!

Self love is embracing that tummy that society tell us is undesirable, and rocking that cute two piece I just found online. It is being ok with the fact that I will never in my lifetime ever have a thigh gap, or lips like Kylie Jenner.

Self love is embracing the good, the bad, and the ugly. It’s not letting people tell me that I am less a person because I don’t look a certain way, or think a certain way. Self love is realizing my worth and potential, and that I am enough!

Self love is being empowered. It is having the courage to not only pick myself up, but others around me. It is encouraging others to love themselves. It is contagious.

Self love is choosing to see the positive and void the negative. It is holding my head high and strutting down the catwalk of my life with purpose and a fierceness that is a force to be reckoned with.

Self love is looking in the mirror and being able to say I like the person looking back at me.

– Melissa Norman.

Makeup by Shayla Rose from Rose Quartz Makeup Services https://www.facebook.com/Rosequartzmakeup/

Imagery by Sabrina from Sequel Photography
https://www.facebook.com/sequelphotography/

Meet the Metzger’s

Sabrina Metzger…Our Sabrina!

A day of pretty things, and tents filled with beautiful souls who were there to cheer on the excited couple, this is how I would describe Nick & Sabrina’s wedding day. From the tiniest details on the tables to the beading on her dress everything was perfectly placed. We could not be happier for our friends, it was a great day to celebrate the joining of two hearts and an honor to be a part of helping to make it all happen.DSC_0590

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Nick & Sabrina Metzger Wedding – May 21st

Venue: Triple Swann Nursery

Photography: Heaton Photography

Floral Arrangements: Sequel Events Inc.

Brides Bouquet: Floralista

Catering: Austin Gourmet

Décor: Valley Weddings

Bridal Gown: Everything But The Groom

Day of: Sequel Events Inc.

Bridal Hair & Makeup: Vancouver Mobile Makeup

Bridesmaids Hair: Mauve Hair Design